Stop doing. | Start Being.

You are here to return home. You are here because you are looking for answers when you know the answers are already inside you.

It is no longer working to push through and “just get it done”. This method has left you feeling disconnected and disjointed.

You have tried everything, checked every box, turned over every stone, and yet you still feel disconnected.

Outloud you say: “This is just the way it is and I need to just to relax because I am asking for too much”.

But that isn’t the problem and you know it.

I can help you fix the real problem.

Instead of thriving; you pretend to love your life because here is the thing…you DO have a good life…it’s just not the life you WANT.

It shows up like this:

You physically feel…

Exhausted, run down and sleep deprived. So you have tried the latest bio-hacking tool. You know your body is an asset so you spend hours trying to maximize your physical health…and yet nothing budges. You are still carrying weight on your body, you are not hitting your goals and your discouragement continues to grow.

You Emotionally you feel…

moments of intense emotion such as rage and irritability. You look at all the problems in society and feel stuck. You know you are here to create change in the world though you can’t possibly take that on without soul crushing guilt starting to arise. You heard of mom guilt though you never knew it would be so intense

You Mentally you feel…

As if the best idea is to pack everything up and move to Costa Rica. You are convinced that you are missing some key information here to “have it all” and so you have read the latest self help book, you follow the latest Instagram parenting trends and you are certain that you are on discovery away from finally having this all figured out…

Your Soul Feels…

Empty.  You feel as if there is more to life or suppose to be anyway and you do not know how to access it. You have tried to fill this soul gap with material items though that has only led to resentment and feelings of not being enough. You are pretty sure you used to laugh more and you are so over feeling duped.

It’s not just you…

Look we were all taught that we could lean in and have it all. We were raised by mothers who could not speak their truth because it was seen as disrespectful AND look…you were taught to be highly independent, care take of all humans and things.

It was your job to ignore your needs to make sure others were “okay”.

This way of being that you were taught bleeds into your ability to mother, to love fully and to even answer the question “what do I want?”.

This is you if…

  • You are easily irritated or angered.

  • You often feel beside yourself.

  • You find you start many tasks but don't complete them.

  • You feel as if you talk in circles and fail to take new action.

  • You constantly seek something new.

  • You say you lack sexual desire though the truth is you just feel foreign in your body.

  • You avoid slowing down for fear that if one thing doesn't happen the rest of the your life will also fall apart.

  • You say you want others to help you though no one can help you the way you need.

  • You tell others you are happy though you feel a constant nagging that something isn't quite right.

  • You often find yourself looking for ways to numb feelings...hello social media scroll.

  • You find that rage, though scary, also feels good to you because you finally feel heard.

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Here’s the deal: you don’t have to pretend to be happy anymore and I can help.

Using my Cultivating Wild Beauty method, I help women just like you regain their happiness, form better relationships and start to feel into their value once again.

Our Services

  • Community and growth? Say no more. These groups are run twice a year and bring in an element of living with the seasons while exploring what it takes to create a thriving life…right now, exactly as you are today.

  • The ideal choice if you want a personalized plan that is tailored to your goals and lifestyle. From walk and talk to in your pocket 24/7 access to support this support brings you back to you.

  • A 14-month mentorship with Mary to cut through the fluff and return to you.

  • This is for a one-time look into the area that has you stuck. You walk away with a plan and feel empowered to take the next right step for you.

I work with individuals, groups, and business leaders on understanding and following through on the inside outwork that leads to a thrilling and fulfilling life.

I am a holistic psychiatric consultant who focuses on the mind, body, emotions, and soul levels of the human experience. So many people will tell you to bio-hack this, mind-hack this, and manifest this without giving you the whole picture. I cut through the fluff and help you come back to you so that you are able to finally follow through on what your soul knows you are here to do.

I’m Mary…a trained therapist, truth seeker and psychological consultant.